You Are Worthy of Dreaming New Dreams

Shandice Stallworth
2 min readAug 2, 2021
Photo by Shandice Stallworth (2021)

During a retreat I attended a few weeks ago, I had the most comforting revelation that shifted my perspective in so many fruitful ways. When I think about the word “emptiness,” it can often feel like a form of incompleteness or even brokenness, so much so we can unknowingly avoid the feeling at all cost.

Lately, as I fully emerge into my 30s, I have spent much time reflecting on the dreams I carried in my late teens and 20s, dreams that have beautifully unraveled and brought me to this very moment in time. But what I didn’t realize is the fulfillment of one thing can create a feeling of emptiness as you contemplate what’s next. I found myself wondering if I had reached my “end,” a place where inspiration and dreams were no longer my norm.

But when I was asked the question, “What do you know for sure?”
These words freely flew from my fingertips: I am worthy of living the life of my dreams. I am also worthy of living the dreams I have yet to dream.

This lightbulb moment led me to an even deeper understanding . . .

All this time, I was feeling as if something was missing, when all along, God was clearing space within me and preparing me for a new revelation — a new beginning — a new way of living. A new dream to embrace.

I am not empty.

I am in preparation to be filled with something new.

As we walk into August, if you’ve been feeling “empty” or uninspired, I hope my words serve as a reminder that a blank canvas is an adventurous and creative signal to pick up your paintbrush and be guided by a new beginning. So be patient with yourself, remain open, and watch new dreams begin to fill your inner space.

So repeat with me:
I am not empty.
I am in preparation to be filled with something new.

#NewBeginnings

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Shandice Stallworth

Author of Dear Purposeful Woman: Courageous Words for You & Me: amzn.to/2WK3Gxo — Londoner living in Atlanta, GA.